Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Growing up Alaska: Memories of a Town, a Time, a Place, and a People Planted in a Little Pocket of Wonderful by Niki Breeser Tschirgi

Growing up Alaska: Memories of a Town, a Time, a Place, and a People Planted in a Little Pocket of Wonderful by Niki Breeser Tschirgi 

Take a glimpse back to a unique time, place, and people in the interior of Alaska where "normal" was attending school at -60°F and so was carrying a flashlight to the bus stop both in the morning and afternoon.
Join Niki as she reminisces about her childhood in Tok (pronounced "Toke"). There was no internet or cell phones; TV and radio consisted of only one station, but none of that mattered. What did matter was the people, the experiences, and the memories they created together. Discover Bucky the Moose, Mukluk Land, colorful school memories, and the ups and downs of life in an isolated land. Laugh, and maybe cry a little, as you read about the community of Tok, and the people that made it special.
Here's to remembering childhood....Here's to Growing up Alaska.

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My review: Good book! Enjoyed the personal photos as well. Finding a place that stays in your heart is special in so many ways and the support of a close community is a wonderful thing!  Learned in what ways Alaska is much the same as elsewhere in the country and what makes it uniquely special.  -38 degrees though! yikes. Lol.  It would have to be some special, hardy people to live there and make a go of it. Thanks for sharing your childhood with us.

I received this book as an Advance Reader Copy through http://bookreviewbuzz.com/ in exchange for an honest review.

Sunday, March 27, 2016

Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America by Barbara Ehrenreich

Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America by Barbara Ehrenreich

From the Goodreads synopsis:  The New York Times bestseller, and one of the most talked about books of the year, Nickel and Dimed has already become a classic of undercover reportage.

Millions of Americans work for poverty-level wages, and one day Barbara Ehrenreich decided to join them. She was inspired in part by the rhetoric surrounding welfare reform, which promised that any job equals a better life. But how can anyone survive, let alone prosper, on $6 to $7 an hour? To find out, Ehrenreich moved from Florida to Maine to Minnesota, taking the cheapest lodgings available and accepting work as a waitress, hotel maid, house cleaner, nursing-home aide, and Wal-Mart salesperson. She soon discovered that even the "lowliest" occupations require exhausting mental and physical efforts. And one job is not enough; you need at least two if you intend to live indoors.

Nickel and Dimed reveals low-wage America in all its tenacity, anxiety, and surprising generosity -- a land of Big Boxes, fast food, and a thousand desperate strategies for survival. Instantly acclaimed for its insight, humor, and passion, this book is changing the way America perceives its working poor.

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My review:  A solid book that makes some excellent points. Has the feel of a 20/20 news article in its flow, with some self reflection intermingled. I feel she did the subject justice even though didn't go that deep into the subject; the book serves as a conversation starter, excellent introduction to the problem that hopefully gets people talking. Unless someone brings it up, the problem will continue in the same direction it always has. The author I believe did well and I would be willing to read more by her.  Spoiler alert in the below paragraph, a portion of the evaluation in the last chapter of what she's learned from her experience:
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From the book:  "I grew up hearing over and over, to the point of tedium, that "hard work" was the secret of success: "Work hard and you'll get ahead" or "It's hard work that got us where we are." No one ever said that you could work hard - harder even than you ever thought possible - and still find yourself sinking ever deeper into poverty and debt.

When poor single mothers had the option of remaining out of the labor force on welfare, the middle and upper middle class tended to view them with a certain impatience, if not disgust. The welfare poor were excoriated for their laziness, their persistence in reproducing in unfavorable circumstances, their presumed addictions, and above all for their "dependency." Here they were, content to live off "government handouts" instead of seeking "self- sufficiency," like everyone else, through a job. They needed to get their act together, learn how to wind an alarm clock, get out there and get to work. But now that government has largely withdrawn its "handouts," now that the overwhelming majority of the poor
"social contract." According to a recent poll conducted by jobs for the Future, a Boston-based employment research firm, 94 percent of Americans agree that "people who work fulltime should be able to earn enough to keep their families out of poverty."57 I grew up hearing over and over, to the point of tedium, that "hard work" was the secret of success: "Work hard and you'll get ahead" or "It's hard work that got us where we are." No one ever said that you could work hard - harder even than you ever thought possible - and still find yourself sinking ever deeper into poverty and debt.

When poor single mothers had the option of remaining out of the labor force on welfare, the middle and upper middle class tended to view them with a certain impatience, if not disgust. The welfare poor were excoriated for their laziness, their persistence in reproducing in unfavorable circumstances, their presumed addictions, and above all for their "dependency." Here they were, content to live off "government handouts" instead of seeking "self- sufficiency," like everyone else, through a job. They needed to get their act together, learn how to wind an alarm clock, get out there and get to work. But now that government has largely withdrawn its "handouts," now that the overwhelming majority of the poor are out there toiling in Wal-Mart or Wendy's-well, what are we to think of them?

Disapproval and condescension no longer apply, so what outlook makes sense?

Guilt, you may be thinking warily. Isn't that what we're supposed to feel? But guilt doesn't go anywhere near far enough; the appropriate emotion is shame - shame at our own dependency, in this case, on the underpaid labor of others. When someone works for less pay than she can live on-when, for example, she goes hungry so that you can eat more cheaply and conveniently-then she has made a great sacrifice for you, she has made you a gift of some part of her abilities, her health, and her life. The "working poor," as they are approvingly termed, are in fact the major philanthropists of our society. They neglect their own children so that the children of others will be cared for; they live in substandard housing so that other homes will be shiny and perfect; they endure privation so that inflation will be low and stock prices high. To be a member of the working poor is to be an anonymous donor, a nameless benefactor, to everyone else. As Gail, one of my restaurant coworkers put it, "you give and you give."

A lot of the reviews were scathing, I'm not sure why. She made it clear in the intro that she had advantages others actually in the situation didn't have. That she had options to fall back on. But she did give it all she had in my opinion to make the experiment a go without resorting to "cheating" as she put it unless she was in danger. : " The idea was to spend a month in each setting and see whether I could find a job and earn, in that time, the money to pay a second month's rent. If I was paying rent by the week and ran out of money I would simply declare the project at an end; no shelters or sleeping in cars for me. Furthermore, I had no intention of going hungry. If things ever got to the point where the next meal was in question, I promised myself as the time to begin the "experiment" approached, I would dig out my ATM card and cheat.
So this is not a story of some death-defying "undercover" adventure. Almost anyone could do what I did - look for jobs, work those jobs, try to make ends meet. In fact, millions of Americans do it every day, and with a lot less fanfare and dithering.
I am, of course, very different from the people who normally fill America's least attractive jobs, and in ways that both helped and limited me. Most obviously, I was only visiting a world that others inhabit full-time, often for most of their lives. With all the real- life assets I've built up in middle age-bank account, IRA, health insurance, multiroom home-waiting indulgently in the background, there was no way I was going to "experience poverty" or find out how it "really feels" to be a long-term low-wage worker. My aim here was much more straightforward and objective-just to see whether I could match income to expenses, as the truly poor attempt to do every day....Certainly I made no effort to play a role or fit into some imaginative stereotype of low-wage working women. I wore my usual clothes, wherever ordinary clothes were permitted, and my usual hairstyle and makeup.....To state the proposition in reverse, low-wage workers are no more homogeneous in personality or ability than people who write for a living, and no less likely to be funny or bright. Anyone in the educated classes who thinks otherwise ought to broaden their circle of friends.....There's no way, for example, to pretend to be a waitress: the food either gets to the table or not. People knew me as a waitress, a cleaning person, a nursing home aide, or a retail clerk not because I acted like one but because that's what I was, at least for the time I was with them. In every job, in every place I lived, the work absorbed all my energy and much of my intellect. I wasn't kidding around. Even though I suspected from the start that the mathematics of wages and rents were working against me, I made a mighty effort to succeed......I make no claims for the relevance of my experiences to anyone else's, because there is nothing typical about my story.

Just bear in mind, when I stumble, that this is in fact the best-case scenario: a person with every advantage that ethnicity and education, health and motivation can confer attempting, in a time of exuberant prosperity, to survive in the economy's lower depths."

I think she did well in opening the subject up for conversation and hopefully someone will use it to improve things for those that suffer in poverty. Judging by the reviews, I somehow don't think so but maybe, just maybe, the one right person will see what she's attempted and realize this country could do more to help bridge the gap between the well fed and the not so well fed people in our society.  Everyone has to live and eat. Those that are able to do that with some to spare need to give a better hand up to those of our fellow humans that struggle to get even the basics.

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Babe in the Woods: Building a Life One Log at a Time by Yvonne Wakefield

Babe in the Woods: Building a Life One Log at a Time by Yvonne Wakefield

from Goodreads, about the author:

At the age of 18 Yvonne built a log cabin in the Oregon mountains, and is currently working on a series of three books about this and subsequent experiences of building with logs and living in the wilderness. Like Suitcase Filled with Nails, these books will include print on demand images of her art work, a concept Yvonne is pioneering in the publishing world.

Yvonne divides her time between this log cabin, a studio built in a renovated apple ware house and a home/studio on the Columbia River in The Dalles Oregon.

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My review: This is an awesome book, that kept me fully engaged from the 1st laugh-out-loud chapter to the end.  Yvonne has a wonderfully descriptive writing style that enables you to see the places and people in her book.  I found it so interesting and well written, I read it in a couple of days.  Her dream of a cabin at age 14 was a fixed point and dream for her to focus on that helped her get past the death of her parents. It was a way to heal, even in the midst of the difficulties she encountered actually moving her dream out of her head and into concrete realization.  There were also the very real emotional struggles, the process of working through them, as we all must in this messy world.  I am eagerly waiting for books 2 and 3!  Her dogged determination is wonderful and inspiring.  We can all learn a lesson in not giving up in the blackest of times, the sun will always shine again and healing does come.

Sunday, March 20, 2016

Crippled America: How to Make America Great Again by Donald J. Trump

Crippled America: How to Make America Great Again by Donald J. Trump

From the Goodreads synopsis:
Look at the state of the world right now. It’s a terrible mess, and that’s putting it mildly. There has never been a more dangerous time. The politicians and special interests in Washington, DC, are directly responsible for the mess we are in. So why should we continue listening to them?

It’s time to bring America back to its rightful owners—the American people.

I’m not going to play the same game politicians have been playing for decades—all talk, no action, while special interests and lobbyists dictate our laws. I am shaking up the establishment on both sides of the political aisle because I can’t be bought. I want to bring America back, to make it great and prosperous again, and to be sure we are respected by our allies and feared by our adversaries.

It’s time for action. Americans are fed up with politics as usual. And they should be! In this book, I outline my vision to make America great again, including: how to fix our failing economy; how to reform health care so it is more efficient, cost-effective, and doesn’t alienate both doctors and patients; how to rebuild our military and start winning wars—instead of watching our enemies take over—while keeping our promises to our great veterans; how to ensure that our education system offers the resources that allow our students to compete internationally, so tomorrow’s jobseekers have the tools they need to succeed; and how to immediately bring jobs back to America by closing our doors to illegal immigrants, and pressuring businesses to produce their goods at home.

This book is my blueprint for how to Make America Great Again. It’s not hard. We just need someone with the courage to say what needs to be said. We won’t find that in Washington, DC.

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My review:

Good book, smart man, don't believe everything the media tells you. This book outlines his thoughts about what is wrong with this country, why he believes this and why he chose to run for President when he didn't initially want to and resisted the idea. Definitely worth a read. Don't let the media be your only source of information, get both sides before making a decision, a lot of what they're reporting is falsified. What he wrote here makes a lot of sense. He's done well in business and seems to be intelligent, disciplined and well organized, and has done well in raising his children.  Compared to what is in the White House now, I believe he could do better as President.  Four stars!

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

God's Smuggler by Brother Andrew

God's Smuggler by Brother Andrew

From the Back Cover:
A true-life thriller that will leave you breathless!

As a boy, Brother Andrew dreamed of being an undercover spy working behind enemy lines. As a man he found himself working undercover for God. His was a mission filled with danger, financed by faith, supported by miracles.

Told it was impossible to minister behind the Iron Curtain, Andrew knew that nothing was too hard for God. Crossing "closed" borders, he prayed, "Lord, in my luggage I have Scripture I want to take to Your children. When You were on earth, You made blind eyes see. Now, I pray, make seeing eyes blind. Do not let the guards see those things You do not want them to see." And they never did.

For thirty-five years, Brother Andrew's life story has inspired millions to step out on their own journeys of faith. This young Dutch factory worker's near-incredible adventures testify of God's step-by-step guidance and hour-by-hour provision--available to all who follow His call.

Far from being over, Brother Andrew's current adventures are his most challenging yet. In a new prologue and epilogue, his story is carried into the new millennium with an account of Andrew's work in the "closed" societies of Islam.

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My review:  I read this as a child and was excited to read it again. It was a foundational book for me.  The part where he asked God to "make seeing eyes blind" I remember from back then, even now that I'm 46 years old.  He exercises his faith over and over, and God never fails. This uplifting book should be read by every Christian as an example of what God can do with the weakest, poorest of souls that is willing to let Him work in them.
As he is wrestling with God's will in becoming a missionary, you can see him searching for the truth:

"And still I hung back. I seemed to have so many points against me. I didn't have Kees's learning. And hide it though I might from others, I had a crippled ankle. How could I be a missionary if I couldn't even walk a city block without pain!

Did I really intend to be a missionary-or was it only a romantic dream with which I indulged myself? I had often heard Sidney Wilson speak of "praying through." He meant by this, sticking with a prayer until he got an answer. Well, I was going to try it. One Sunday afternoon in September, 1952, I went out on to the polders where I could pray aloud without being embarrassed. I sat on the edge of a canal and began talking to God casually, as I might have talked with Thile. I prayed right through coffee-and-cigar hour, right through Sunday afternoon, and on into the evening. And still I had not reached a point where I knew I had found God's plan for my life.

"What is it, Lord?" What am I holding back? What am I using as an excuse for not serving You in whatever You want me to do?"

And then, there by the canal, I finally had my answer. My "yes" to God had always been a "yes, but." Yes, but I'm not educated. Yes, but I'm lame.

With the next breath, I did say "Yes." I said it in a brand-new way, without qualification. "I'll go, Lord," I said, ... Whenever, wherever, however You want me, I'll go. And I'll begin this very minute. Lord, as I stand up from this place, and as I take my first step forward, will You consider that this is a step toward complete obedience to You? I'll call it the Step of Yes."

Later you can see him begin to grow in his relationship with Jesus:

"I turned through the gate at the school. Above me was the reminder "Have Faith In God."

That was it! It wasn't that I needed the security of a certain amount of money, it was that I needed the security of a relationship.

I walked up the crunchy pebblewalk feeling more and more certain that I was on the verge of something exciting. The school was asleep and quiet. I tiptoed upstairs and sat by the bedroom window looking out over Glasgow. If I were going to give my life as a servant of the King, I had to know that King. What was He like? In what way could I trust Him? In the same way I trusted a set of impersonal laws? Or could I trust Him as a living leader, as a very present commander in battle? The question was central. Because if He were a King in name only, I would rather go back to the chocolate factory. I would remain a Christian, but I would know that my religion was only a set of principles, excellent and to be followed, but hardly demanding devotion.

Suppose on the other hand that I were to discover God to be a Person, in At the chocolate factory I trusted Mr. Ringers to pay me in full and on time. Surely I said to myself, if an ordinary factory worker could be financially secure, so could one of God's workers."

God would test him in this, and leave his needs unmet until the very last moment , to see if he would have faith enough to trust Him to take care of his needs, and God proved Himself over and over again.

I turned through the gate at the school. Above me was the reminder "Have Faith In God."

That was it! It wasn't that I needed the security of a certain amount of money, it was that I needed the security of a relationship.

I walked up the crunchy pebblewalk feeling more and more certain that I was on the verge of something exciting. The school was asleep and quiet. I tiptoed upstairs and sat by the bedroom window looking out over Glasgow. If I were going to give my life as a servant of the King, I had to know that King. What was He like? In what way could I trust Him? In the same way I trusted a set of impersonal laws? Or could I trust Him as a living leader, as a very present commander in battle? The question was central. Because if He were a King in name only, I would rather go back to the chocolate factory. I would remain a Christian, but I would know that my religion was only a set of principles, excellent and to be followed, but hardly demanding devotion.

Suppose on the other hand that I were to discover God to be a Person, in the sense that He communicated and cared and loved and led. That was something quite different. That was the kind of King I would follow into any battle.

[in a later conversation with friends] ..."But how would I go about strengthening anything?" I said. "What kind of strength do I have?"

Mr. Whetstra shook his head. He agreed with me that one lone Dutchman was scarcely an answer to the kind of need I had been describing. It was Mrs. Whetstra who understood.

"No strength at all!" she answered me joyously. "And don't you know that it is just when we are weakest that God can use us most? Suppose now that it wasn't yo

 but the Holy Spirit Who had plans behind the Iron Curtain? You talk about strength...."

And thus began his journey around 1955,  his work smuggling bibles into a dozen countries or so where God is not welcome and God's workers have to take the church  Underground (out of sight), who's work continues today in an organization called Open Doors.

https://www.opendoorsusa.org/about-us/

His writing style is very easy and descriptive, and his journey entertaining and rewarding as well. He had difficult times and funny times, happy and sad, and he writes them all with clarity.  4 stars!

The Long Hello: Memory, My Mother, and Me by Cathie Borrie

The Long Hello: Memory, My Mother, and Me  by Cathie Borrie 

From the Goodreads Synopsis: A stirring memoir of a daughter caring for a mother with dementia that is sure to become a touchstone for many others.

The Long Hello explores the emotional rewards and challenges that Cathie Borrie experienced in caring for her mother, who was living with Alzheimer’s disease, for seven years. Between the two, a wondrously poetic dialogue develops, which Ms. Borrie further illuminates with childhood memories of her family, and her struggle to maintain a life outside her caregiving responsibilities. The Long Hello demonstrates how caregiving creates an opportunity to experience the change in a relationship that illness necessitates, one in which joy, innocence, and profound intimacy can flourish.

Written in spare, beautiful prose, largely in the form of a dialogue, The Long Hello exquisitely captures the intricacies and nuances of a daughter’s relationship with her mother.

Additional Info:
In this shimmering jewel of a memoir, "The Long Hello The Other Side of Alzheimer's," author Cathie Borrie traverses rich terrain as she unearths the hidden and often painful treasures of a life well lived: the shadows and joys of childhood, the relationships that leave us both illuminated and bereft, the love, longing and loss that surge to the fore when a parent is ailing. Memory, and the losing of it, serves as a powerful guide, and Borrie follows her mother's eccentric and poetic lead into the past, transformed by the unexpected brilliance of the elder woman's shifting dementia mind. A paean of redemptive beauty, "The Long Hello" cherishes the bond between mothers and daughters, and creates a startling change in society's perception of those journeying through Alzheimer's.

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My review:  Well done! Gut wrenching and poignant. Appreciated it being written from the mindset of both mother and daughter to experience the emotional process of both. As a caretaker of multiple family that are disabled, I resonated with many emotions felt by the author, the weariness and helplessness as well of not being able to change what simply is.  I was impressed and touched by the patience shown toward her mother when she would say something that didn't make sense, and did not belittle her for it, knowing that even if her mind would say the wrong words, those words still had worth. From one caretaker to another, I salute you. Read this in one sitting, within a few hours.  Riveting!  4 stars!   **received this book as an Advanced Reader Copy from Edelweiss**